I'm fed up with the manager at my veterinary clinic

Dear Dusty Resumé:

Wow! Get that resumé ready. I've heard of discomfort with confrontation, but this owner really needs to step up and be the leader the practice needs. I'll tell you all of the right things to do, but it sounds like you've tried some of them and still have received no help from the owner.

In this case the owner is the key. I always tell my employees I can protect them from everyone but me, the owner. Everyone else can be expected to change, but if the owner won't change, then there's no system that will make him different.

In general, people have to be in enough pain to change. If everything you've confronted the owner with is not enough pain, apparently the owner is perfectly happy with the way things are. Given that you have already tried professional confrontation, going over the manager's head and every other trick under the sun, I think it might be time to look elsewhere for work.

Good luck! There are may great practices who are looking for someone with your attitude of ownership, and I hope you find one.

—Shawn

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