10 tips for giving a great compliment

1. Mean what you say.

If you don't believe it, neither will the person you're complimenting. A quick tip: Simple sounds more sincere.

2. Be specific.

“You're good at your job” doesn't carry the same weight as, “You have a magic touch with fractious felines. I've never seen anyone handle Sir Scratchalot as well as you do.”

3. Be prompt.

It's harder to bask in the glow of victory weeks after you've crossed the finish line.

4. Be spontaneous.

Practiced compliments will never ring true. You'll sound more sincere if you follow your impulse and let your warm words flow as they come.

5. Do it in front of an audience.

Compliments are best shared, and you'll spur others to reach new heights in search of similar praise.

6. Don't ruin it.

Tacking on criticism or including a request for help turns a warm fuzzy into a cold prickly.

7. Do it often.

Compliments are free, and they're hands down the best reward you can offer. So see how many people you can touch.

8. Pair it with a reward.

A $5 gift certificate or flowers reinforce your words.

9. Write it down.

Then the person you compliment can re-live your kind thoughts over and over again.

10. Get inspired.

Read examples of great compliments here.